In our conversations with brides, we are frequently asked
this question. Many brides seem to feel
that receiving lines are out of date and awkward.
In our more casual society, many people see receiving lines
as being "too formal" and a throwback to days when "rules"
governed how people behaved. They think
that they will informally greet every one of their guests at some time during
the reception. And if it is a small
wedding/reception - they just might achieve that by "making the
rounds".
However, we urge our brides to rethink their view of
receiving lines. Until someone comes up
with a substitute that will allow all guests to be greeted on arrival and
departure, a receiving line should be included.
Your reception is a huge party given by your family to
celebrate this significant milestone in your life. You have invited guests to help you
celebrate. The least you can do is to
greet them as they arrive. One
alternative is to hold a receiving line at the end of the ceremony and greet
your guests and thank them for coming at that point. Included in the receiving line should be both
sets of parents (or at the very least - both mothers) and the bride and
groom. Other members of the wedding
party can be optional.
No matter where the receiving line is held - after the
ceremony or at the beginning of the reception, it is a nice touch to acknowledge your guests by toasting them. The bride and the groom should both offer a
toast to their guests who have come together to help them celebrate this very
important day. You may offer the toast
as a couple or each of you may offer a few words. You may give this toast during the meal
(usually best) or just before you cut the cake.
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