The mother of the bride has a very special place in the
wedding planning process. This special
role is there whether or not she chooses to accept it. For some, it is truly a “Mission
Impossible”. For others it is the role
of a lifetime. But what is important is
that she is included.
With families frequently separated by miles, jobs, schools
or military service, the parental roles have changed but what has not changed
is the importance of including mom in the planning process wherever
possible. Occasionally we meet mothers
who feel left out of the plans.
What can you do? It’s
great to involve the groom in the plans but don’t forget mom. She can make wonderful suggestions – so ask
her opinion and advice. Chances are
excellent that she has had more experience in dealing with things like
receptions, parties, caterers and florists than has the bride.
Most bridal fashion stores would counsel a bride to bring
only one person with her to select her gown.
That person could/should be mom.
Today’s tendency to bring the entire wedding party and solicit each of
their opinions on THE GOWN generally is not a productive event. Who knows you and your tastes and dreams
better than MOM?
She is also a good person to have along when you choose
wedding accessories and gifts for your attendants. After all, she has known you for a long time.
She is the perfect person to take charge of the master guest
list. She can eliminate duplicates, help
make decisions on the final list and gather the addresses.
Seek advice on, or let her plan the seating arrangements for
the reception. She’ll be the one who
knows who should sit with whom and who shouldn’t be at the same table.
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